Think its cool to be a bully ? – well it’s NOT!
Being online and using the internet is just like being in the real world – you can chat to people, play games and share pictures. But sometimes things happen which can make you upset. People may say nasty things to you which upset you, or you may see something that you don’t like.
Watch the videos, read the Cyber-bullying tips and do the ‘How cybersmart are you’ quiz. Remember – It’s up to us all – together we can stop the bullies!
Video 1 – ‘It’s up to YOU’
“It’s up to YOU” Indirect bullying goes unseen far too often. It’s an invisible, draining and negative energy that harms many children today. We know it’s there and together we can stop it. Watch the video – how does it make you feel? Remember – Bullying can be stopped if we all work together.
Video 2 – ‘DON’T PUT UP WITH BULLYING’
Words can cut and hurt. Everybody is entitled to respect and cyber bullies are cowards and invisible, hiding behind their computers. If you are a victim don’t let them get away with it. Tell a parent, guardian or class teacher. Remember, if you don’t get help it may not stop. Watch the video – hows does it make you feel?
Cyberbully top tips
Don’t respond. If someone bullies you, remember that your reaction is usually exactly what the bully wants. It gives him or her power over you. Who wants to empower a bully?
- Don’t retaliate. Getting back at the bully turns you into one and reinforces the bully’s behavior. Help avoid a whole cycle of aggression.
- Save the evidence. The only good news about digital bullying is that the harassing messages can usually be captured, saved, and shown to someone who can help. You need to do this even if it’s minor stuff, in case things escalate.
- Talk to a trusted adult. You deserve backup. It’s always good to involve a parent but – if you can’t – an adult at school usually knows how to help. Sometimes both are needed. If you’re really nervous about saying something, see if there’s a way to report the incident anonymously at school.
- Block the bully. If the harassment’s coming in the form of instant messages, texts, or profile comments, do yourself a favor: Use preferences or privacy tools to block the person. If it’s in chat, leave the “room.”
- Be civil. Even if you don’t like someone, it’s a good idea to be decent and not sink to the other person’s level. Also, research shows that gossiping about and trash talking others increases your risk of being bullied. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
- Don’t be a bully. How would you feel if someone harassed you? There is an old saying about walking a mile in someone’s shoes; even a few seconds of thinking about how another person might feel can put a big damper on aggression. That’s needed in this world.
- Be a friend, not a bystander. Watching or forwarding mean messages empowers bullies and hurts victims even more. If you can, tell bullies to stop or let them know harassment makes people look stupid and mean. It’s time to let bullies know their behavior is unacceptable – cruel abuse of fellow human beings. If you can’t stop the bully, at least try to help the victim and report the behaviour.